Sure... face... That's the word I meant.
So make a VERY long story short...er.
It looks like my mom will not be living with us.
Unfortunately, in order for DJ and I to claim my mother as a dependent, and for the military to approve of it he and I need to be able to cover 75% of her expenses. She can't live with us because we live in base housing, and if someone that isn't a dependent is living with us we'll be kicked out... That wouldn't really be a problem, if we could afford to live off base. We can't.
OH and the REALLY sucky thing in all this? The only way we could afford to take care of my mom is if the military lets us claim her as a dependent. (Gah I hate that word)
She is unable to work because of her hallucinations, and is on permanent disability. OH and with her "survivors benefits" she only gets about 850$ a month. Yeah. Her rent is 920. And that's cheap for where she lives.
In other words, it is all VERY frustrating, and there is nothing DJ and I can do to help her.